Valentines Day Bedroom Bliss
Create ‘Bliss in the Bedroom’ on Valentines Day, with these simple ideas from Sensuality Coach and owner of Secrets From the Boudoir, Kim Gillespie
The Boudoir
The Boudoir is the most intimate of rooms for indulging in the Rituals of Seduction ,
it should be a sensual retreat that you and your partner will never want to leave.
Here you can take off your working clothes and
“slip into something more comfortable”
Having a Boudoir is all about Romance and Seduction.
Decorating your Boudoir
Think candlelight , satin, silk , fur, flowers,
sultry music, lots of cushions and romance
You want your bed to be somewhere you disappear with your lover
Colours that enhance a room include Reds, Pinks, Browns, Orange and Gold.
Lighting is essential. You do not want harsh overhead lighting. Lamps create a soft glow to the room
Candles are a must. Scatter candles and little tea lights in every corner of the room to cast a romantic glow . Arouse the senses with the heady aroma of Cedarwood, Sandalwood ,
Sage and Lavender. ( Do not put candles where they can be knocked)
To decorate the bed, invest in throws made from fake fur or velvet, an exotic satin bedspread is a beautiful addition as are a pile of soft beaded cushions.
For instant sex appeal why not invest in silk or satin sheets. Skin that is caressed by exquisite sheets feels aroused
Don’t forget sexy music - music has a subliminal effect and can relax and transform us
Music should be as sensual as the sex you’re hoping to have
Get a Babysitter
Now you have the room set up, ask Grandma or a trusted friend to look after the children for the night.
Leave a love note.
There is something stimulating, simply knowing that your partner was thoughtful enough to write down on paper that he or she is thinking about you. Leave a love note where your partner will easily find it, describing how sexy they are and what you have planned to do for him/her tonight.
Bathe your Partner
Run your partner a bubble bath , open a bottle of wine,
gently pamper and wash him or her.
Sensual Massage.
This is one great way to get in the mood or put your partner in the mood. Once the massage begins with the back, then the back of the legs, you can lead to other more sensitive parts of the body. You can use sensual oils and aromatherapy oils to aid in creating that special state of mind. Sometimes just the relaxing effect of a massage can calm you down enough to feel intimate.
Wear Sexy Lingerie
Sex appeal has a lot to do with confidence and there is nothing like sexy lingerie to enhance your curves and make you feel attractive.
The Art of Seduction is based on anticipation , so consider yourself as a delightful present ready to be unwrapped !
Keep a selection of ‘Boudoir wear’ aside for romantic occasions. This should consist of at least one outfit that enhances all of your ‘assets’ and makes you feel sexy. Look for Lace, Silk, Satin, Ribbon, Mesh , Bows and Fur. Try cleavage enhancing Corsets or silk gowns.
When underwear is silky and sexy , it can have a wonderful sensual effect, making you feel great and your partner long to get his hands on you.
Have an Indoor Picnic
Play soft, sensual music , have on hand Chilled Champagne , Grapes Strawberries and Chocolates to feed your Lover.
And now Darlings … the rest is up to you !
For more information on how to Create even more ‘Bliss in the Bedroom’ and learn how to ‘Get your Sexy Back and Feel Fabulous Naked’ , please visit www.secretsfromtheboudoir.com.au
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